My partner cannot sit our air conditioner, & I undoubtedly do not guess why.
I wish that I would have known that my partner hated air conditioners.
I still would have married my partner knowing that she hated using an air conditioner, however at least I would have known what to expect when the people I was with and I got married. I could have slowly weaned myself off of the air conditioner before the people I was with and I got married so that I wasn’t so dependent on the air conditioner. The last few weeks have been absolutely terrible as I have had to adjust to not using the central air conditioner in our apartment. My partner has nothing morally against using an air conditioner. The only reason that she does not care about air conditioners is because she is not used to air conditioners. She grew up in a apartment without an air conditioner, & her parents never really thought that air conditioners were crucial enough to really buy. In my house, the people I was with and I had a nice central air conditioner, & the people I was with and I turned the control machine to a freezing setting in order to get the most of our central air conditioner. When the people I was with and I were planning to get married, I made sure to find an apartment with a central air conditioner since I didn’t want to have window air conditioners. My partner had never mentioned that she hated air conditioners, & she dealt with it whenever the people I was with and I were at my house. However, when the people I was with and I did get married, she began asking to turn the air conditioner off because she was frosty & uncomfortable, but from then on, I had to learn how to live without an air conditioner. I am sure that she would have compromised for me, although I wanted to be sacrificial.